The Discriminatory and Classist Notion of Not Being "Stable" or "Clean" Enough to Have Relationships

Some people proactively believe you need to work on your every issue before you can consider having a relationship with someone else, as if you're a burden otherwise.

The question is where is that threshold when you should and should not date? Or where the line where "good enough" is happens?

Maybe assuming that people are not clean enough or good enough for entering in romantic relationships with other humans is not everyone's philosophy because there is so much you can work on with someone else, only that it's at the cost of both self-discovery and inadvertently creating instability and hooks.

And I'm not saying one should lower their standards either.

Just that for you people who say these things, I am getting these eugenics vibes from you and it hurts.. as in believing that no schizophrenic, or other socially marginalized people should be allowed to date or have children.. even if I understand the instinctive drive of avoiding offspring with undesirable tendencies.

And it inevitably draws back to this whole New Age War that was WWII.