I am now putting unreliable, unreciprocal and low availability "friends" at a lower priority in my personal life.
If you are the kind of person who wants to befriend me; yet, only replies to me messages a week later, who leaves me on read constantly without saying much, makes me always have to be the one to reach out first, always cancels meetup plans, sorry but I no longer have interest in wasting my time. You're going to only hear from me occasionally now.
I am done with social irresponsibility and I'm pissed. It makes me feel so lonely and ignored.
Those who are my friends, I have a few basic expectations and one is that they care to reach out consistently and allow space for the friendship to grow.
And that there is a strong reciprocity.
I hate one-sided relationships. So much.
My only "priority" friend right now is a lady named Ellie. I say friend because I leave a year of time before I consider someone an actual friend.
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